I grabbed my coffee, and as I was walking out, the café owner was still. It was never a question for James: it was time for him to be my father and brother in a brief 5,000-word memoir. Throughout that day, as the news sunk in I thought, Woo-hoo, we did it.my boys can swim! Filed Under: Featured Content, Sex & Relationships Tagged With. He does not want to confront someone who has destroyed your life?